On the 1st of January 2013 we started Stepping Stone Hospice & Care Services in my suburb. We operated from my home with one highly skilled Palliative Care Nurse, a Palliative Care Doctor, a network of caregivers, a four women steering committee, one car and a lot of enthusiasm and energy.
Vic was our first death. Stepping Stone was borne out of her pain and her desire to “pass it (Hospice Care) forward”. Many years ago, I promised her that I would start a Hospice in her honour…. It would be her legacy. When Siza looked after my Dad in his final days we “connected”. She is a beautiful, compassionate, efficient person. She has a gentle yet confidence inspiring disposition, and she delivered on her promise to Vic on day one. When she came to set up the subcutaneous driver the first time she promised Vic that she would take care of her pain needs. This she did to the best of her ability.
I blogged on this new lease of life Hospice gave Vic. We have at least two and a half wonderful months where Vic was able to “live”… go out for milkshakes with her boys.
We have been so blessed. Six weeks ago we were able to move into an office on the premises of an amazing charity organization called Amcare. We now have a donated desk, laptop and printer. We have quite a lot of donated equipment such as wheelchairs, walkers etc. We only have one dilapidated chair but our work is in people’s homes not in offices!
People have generously donated second-hand clothes which more than provides for the pain medication that is needed to treat our indigent patients. Through generous donations by a couple of people we have managed to pay Siza’s salary, fuel and cell phone costs. We have been able to buy a software program that will allow us to invoice the medical aids, of patients, that have terminal care cover.
Today Trix received a phone call from a lady, our of our second-hand clothing benefactors, who asked whether we could meet with her brother….he wants to donate a building to Stepping Stone Hospice!!
Our God is a faithful God. We have not advertised nor marketed aggressively at all.
I am speechless with the wonder of people’s generosity and love!
Please pray that this will indeed happen!
Vic, your legacy will live on. Thousands of people will be able to live and die with dignity because you had a dream. I love you Angel Child. I know you are our guardian angel!!
HOSPICE BLOGS:–
https://tersiaburger.com/2013/01/03/tomorrow-may-be-better-than-yesterday/
https://tersiaburger.com/2012/12/18/the-right-to-live-with-dignity/
https://tersiaburger.com/2012/11/07/life-is-good-life-is-great/
https://tersiaburger.com/2012/10/15/remission-15-10-2012/
https://tersiaburger.com/2012/10/23/and-hospice-says-go/
https://tersiaburger.com/2012/09/24/mommy-i-thought-i-had-more-time/
She lives on through this, her spirit is a part of it, I can just see her smiling. xo
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Oh yes. I know she is thrilled!!
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WOW!!
A building!!
This is amazing T. I could just wrap my arms around the PC right now..
Amazing (as you say) what people will do.
Well done to you all.
I am a PC Tech remember. Any issues you need there, please just ask ok.
My son can do ANY Graphics for you also. Please ask if you need help with anything.
Brilliant news. I could cry happy tears here
Shaun x
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Oh thank you dearest friend!!! You are so kind!!!!!!
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God is so good!!
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i do so hope the big donation works out. the good thing is whether it does or not you will not be stopped. with your determination and vic watching after nothing will stop you.
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Sandra I KNOW she is watching over me. I sense her presence so strongly. It is amazing how peaceful I feel… Thank you my brave friend!
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I am awed. You have taken this tragedy and begun to grow good from it. And I know you would give it all back to have her here; but that can’t be, so look at what you’ve done. Bless you.
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Thank you Denise. I would give my life to have her back – but healthy not ill. Not suffering the way she was.
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:)http://iamforchange.wordpress.com/awards-page-and-nominations-thank-you-i-am-so-honored-and-grateful/ So many have shared so much with me and I wish to share as well please accept my nominations and if nothing else know I am grateful for your sharing on your pages with us all and the time you share with me on mine.Thank you!! :) Joe
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I am in awe of how you have managed to achieve this, floored by grief as you have been. Be very proud.
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What a wonderful legacy!
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Thank you!
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