Dying is a lonely journey. Not only for the sick person but also for the family. As hard as we may try to avoid death, the truth is that we do a lousy job of it. Science and medicine will certainly postpone it, even staying healthy might seem to delay it, but the harsh reality is that death does not wait for you, it does not ask you, and it does not listen to you. Death ignores your feelings and wants; you do not matter to death…Death is the only certainty in life! We need to remember that our existence here is fragile, and we never have as much time with people as we think we do. If there is someone or someones out there that you love, don’t neglect that and don’t put off engaging with them because waits for no-one… Vic's Journey ended on 18 January 2013 at 10:35. She was the most courageous person in the world and has inspired thousands of people all over the world. Vic's two boys are monuments of her existence. She was an amazing mother, daughter, sister and friend. I will miss you today, tomorrow and forever my Angle Child.
What have I done?
I started fiddling on the Appearance etc links and changed the theme of my site!! I have made booboos and don’t quite know how to fix it…. I have categories in twice – I am not sure whether the colour works!
I am a sixty plenty wife, mother, sister, grandmother and friend. I started blogging as a coping mechanism during my beautiful daughter's final journey. Vic was desperately ill for 10 years after a botched back operation.
Vic's Journey ended on 18 January 2013 at 10:35. She was the most courageous person in the world and has inspired thousands of people all over the world. Vic's two boys are monuments of her existence. She was an amazing mother, daughter, sister and friend.
I will miss you today, tomorrow and forever my Angle Child.
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23 thoughts on “What have I done?”
If you can remember the name of your previous theme you can go back to it if you like… other than that I’ve done the same in the past. It’s no biggy. This theme looks fine to me!
Tersia, You are NOT an idiot! Please, gentle one, do not speak about my friend like that! You are on a learning curve! You know so much more about WordPress than I do…I am still learning…I wished that I could make my site look as impressive as yours! SO…you are NOT an idiot…what would that make me??!!! LOL
I’ll tell you what you did. You experimented and that is the best way to learn. Never fear, it can be fixed. Keep experimenting and please be gentle with yourself. Saying you’re an idiot is not helpful! By the way, I think it looks kind of cool. This is coming from a blogger who hasn’t changed her theme because I was afraid this might happen! It’s good to laugh and that’s what I’m doing right now.
Go to support and ask what your previous theme was.
Also Dashboard, appearance – widgets and click and hold on the thing you have doubled and click on it and pull it to the left and it will come off the page..
Hope that helps.
This is support http://en.forums.wordpress.com/
Post it in Support at the top and use some tags so the know what the problem is, as well as explaining it
You have more courage than me – I don’t even dare fiddle!
Wish you had a like button…
Sometimes I’m to tired to comment, but would like you to know I’ve read and enjoyed…
You’re braver than me. I’ve not dared even try to customise my blog. And I’ve only just figured out how to upload a photograph and it took me ages. Technology can be so frustrating.
Vic's Final Journey 
If you can remember the name of your previous theme you can go back to it if you like… other than that I’ve done the same in the past. It’s no biggy. This theme looks fine to me!
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Thank you Diana!! I like the blue background too
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Tersia, You are NOT an idiot! Please, gentle one, do not speak about my friend like that! You are on a learning curve! You know so much more about WordPress than I do…I am still learning…I wished that I could make my site look as impressive as yours! SO…you are NOT an idiot…what would that make me??!!! LOL
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You are so loyal!!! You are the kind friend of a computer idiot!!
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Yes, I agree with Jane, we are always learning.
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I’ll tell you what you did. You experimented and that is the best way to learn. Never fear, it can be fixed. Keep experimenting and please be gentle with yourself. Saying you’re an idiot is not helpful! By the way, I think it looks kind of cool. This is coming from a blogger who hasn’t changed her theme because I was afraid this might happen! It’s good to laugh and that’s what I’m doing right now.
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Well let’s see you change your appearance… It is fun
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go to your dashboard select themes and choose the one you want. then dashboard …customize which will give you fonts color background etc.
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Thank you oh Clever One!!!
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Oh not clever just been there dione that so many times myself LOL. Hugs and love (((xx)))
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I will have to ask the grandchildren the help!! Hugs
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It looks good to me. :)
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Oh cool! I like the colours too!
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Go to support and ask what your previous theme was.
Also Dashboard, appearance – widgets and click and hold on the thing you have doubled and click on it and pull it to the left and it will come off the page..
Hope that helps.
This is support
http://en.forums.wordpress.com/
Post it in Support at the top and use some tags so the know what the problem is, as well as explaining it
Shaun x
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You charming man – you are too clever. Thank you!
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Not just a pretty face T.. :P
xx
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ps:
I know this as I have broken Word Press myself, :-)
Best way to learn is to break lol
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Sorry don’t know how to help
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You have more courage than me – I don’t even dare fiddle!
Wish you had a like button…
Sometimes I’m to tired to comment, but would like you to know I’ve read and enjoyed…
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I keep forgetting to do the LIKE button thing. Sorry!! I will try and remember! Thank you friend for visiting!!
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You’re braver than me. I’ve not dared even try to customise my blog. And I’ve only just figured out how to upload a photograph and it took me ages. Technology can be so frustrating.
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Now I have to try and fix it….
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I think your site is fine!!
I hate choosing a theme though & finding the blog roll has dropped off or whatever. I understand!
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