Dying is a lonely journey. Not only for the sick person but also for the family. As hard as we may try to avoid death, the truth is that we do a lousy job of it. Science and medicine will certainly postpone it, even staying healthy might seem to delay it, but the harsh reality is that death does not wait for you, it does not ask you, and it does not listen to you. Death ignores your feelings and wants; you do not matter to death…Death is the only certainty in life! We need to remember that our existence here is fragile, and we never have as much time with people as we think we do. If there is someone or someones out there that you love, don’t neglect that and don’t put off engaging with them because waits for no-one… Vic's Journey ended on 18 January 2013 at 10:35. She was the most courageous person in the world and has inspired thousands of people all over the world. Vic's two boys are monuments of her existence. She was an amazing mother, daughter, sister and friend. I will miss you today, tomorrow and forever my Angle Child.
ALZHEIMER’S – A SPECIAL POEM
The best father in the world…
My beautiful dad died of Alzheimer’s.
This poem is for you Daddy. You are my hero; the best father in the world. You loved unconditionally. you held onto your dignity with superhuman effort….
I was so proud of you. You clung to your old-fashioned manners and values until death.
I am glad you died with your dignity intact. I loved you every day of your life and will continue to love you every day of my life.
A special PoemDo not ask me to remember.Don’t try to make me understand.Let me rest and know you’re with me.Kiss my cheek and hold my hand.I’m confused beyond your concept.I am sad and sick and lost.All I know is that I need youTo be with me at all cost.Do not lose your patience with me.Do not scold or curse or cry.I can’t help the way I’m acting,Can’t be different ‘though I try.Just remember that I need you,That the best of me is gone.Please don’t fail to stand beside me,Love me ’till my life is done.– UnknownMy Dad a month before his death….it was such a wonderful day!My dad and I on my wedding daySimply the bestVic adored her Gramps and he adored her!
I am a sixty plenty wife, mother, sister, grandmother and friend. I started blogging as a coping mechanism during my beautiful daughter's final journey. Vic was desperately ill for 10 years after a botched back operation.
Vic's Journey ended on 18 January 2013 at 10:35. She was the most courageous person in the world and has inspired thousands of people all over the world. Vic's two boys are monuments of her existence. She was an amazing mother, daughter, sister and friend.
I will miss you today, tomorrow and forever my Angle Child.
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20 thoughts on “ALZHEIMER’S – A SPECIAL POEM”
Love love love the pictures; what a beautiful bride.
What a beautiful tribute to your dad. I love this poem that seems to speak for those who suffer from Alzheimer’s disease. Tersia it seems you’ve had more than your share of loss, yet you’re still encouraging others who are hurting. God bless you. (((Hugs)))
Diana
Wow! Tersia, you look just like your dad. What a lovely poem. My mom passed away from the same thing, so this we have in common. Your poem really struck a cord with me, as I am sure with others who have experienced this. keep your head up girlfriend and keep up the writing! :)
Love this post! You can see from the pictures what a wonderful man your dad was. He sure loved you and that is easily visible. I’m sure you miss him very much.
I have nominated you for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Please check out the procedure for accepting the award. I enjoy your blog and wish you continued success.I look forward to reading your posts. I hope every day gets better. I adored my dad so I know the feeling.
Love love love the pictures; what a beautiful bride.
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Thank you Denise!!
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I am so sorry for your loss…
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Thank you!
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What a beautiful tribute to your dad. I love this poem that seems to speak for those who suffer from Alzheimer’s disease. Tersia it seems you’ve had more than your share of loss, yet you’re still encouraging others who are hurting. God bless you. (((Hugs)))
Diana
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Hugs dear Diana!
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Wow! Tersia, you look just like your dad. What a lovely poem. My mom passed away from the same thing, so this we have in common. Your poem really struck a cord with me, as I am sure with others who have experienced this. keep your head up girlfriend and keep up the writing! :)
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Thank you Cheryl. It is a compliment – I wish I had his regal nature! AD is a monster disease!!
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Love this post! You can see from the pictures what a wonderful man your dad was. He sure loved you and that is easily visible. I’m sure you miss him very much.
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We were so close!!!! I miss him desperately.
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LOVE this!
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It says it all…
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Good tribute
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I have nominated you for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Please check out the procedure for accepting the award. I enjoy your blog and wish you continued success.I look forward to reading your posts. I hope every day gets better. I adored my dad so I know the feeling.
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Thank you so much! I am honoured and humbled. You are one of my favourite bloggers/poets!! Thank you dear friend!
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You are welcome.
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Hug.
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i am touched, such bond and love is rare, sorry for your loss, keep courage. i like the piece, its nicely done. thank you
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Thank you very much!
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how sweet! beebeesworld
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