Friday morning, as the first rays of the new day peeped through the clouds, a brave young mother breathed her last breath. She was surrounded by her mother, her two daughters, her ex-husband and a friend… Seconds earlier her mom was whispering words of love to her. Telling her it is okay to go… Friday afternoon I attended the funeral of another brave young mother who had died at Stepping Stone. She died with her mom and Hospice volunteers next to her bed. Earlier we had sung for her, prayed for her… Her family could not bear to see her dying and abandoned her and her mom in her final days. This brave young woman had a beautiful smile on her lips when the undertakers arrived to remove her cancer ravished body. At the funeral pink balloons were sent into the sky
Friday evening I stood in the room of a father and husband who was dying. The youngest son sitting slumped in a chair. His eyes red and swollen. At the foot end of the bed a stepson smelling of alcohol. “Had a couple of beers tonight Pop. At least four for you” he said. “He was a man’s man. He came home drunk every night of his life. He lived his life! He provided well for my mom. He worked and played hard.” he said with admiration in his voice… My thoughts went back to earlier that day when the dying man’s wife tried to hug him. “F…. off… F…. off” he told her. His wife wept for him. She stayed with him. She will mourn for him.