Another goodbye, another heartbreak…

I had a total meltdown today. Maybe because I heard last night that a couple are adopting baby Izak. Izak is the beautiful 8 month old foster son of Lani and Tom’s. The poor little angel was abandoned as a day-old baby at a taxi-rank.

This precious baby boy stole my heart and proved to me that one little boy can truly change peoples hearts.

But, the time has come for him to be blessed with loving parents in a permanent home. He is one of the lucky few.

We live in a country with hundreds of thousands of orphans and abandoned children. We do not have enough orphanages to accommodate all our orphans and abandoned children. The children continue to live in their shacks or homes after the death of their parents and often the head of the family could be as young as 11 years…

DIscipline is one of the few problems that arises from the situation. Children grow up with no social skills, no education and often suffer brain damage and poor physical development due to malnutrition.

One way or another the communities take care of their own. We seldom hear of a child starving to death or dying from exposure.

Baby Izak was one of the lucky ones to end up in a loving foster home. He looks at his “mommy” with absolute adoration in his soulful eyes. He loves touching my face and is a great hugger!

He is an intelligent, happy baby. He is ahead on all his milestones. His biological mom has AIDS, but thanks to the ARV program of our government Izak is healthy and not HIV positive!

I am sad that he is leaving our family. I am devastated that for the 2nd time this year I have to say goodbye to someone that I love dearly. I pray that he will be loved and be allowed to develop to his full potential. I pray that his new parents will protect him.
On Friday we have to say goodbye to this precious baby. I won’t go! Last Saturday he fell asleep on my lap. I want to remember that. I cannot bear to hold him even one more time just to have to let him go too.

So baby boy, I hope that you will know that I love you. I will always carry the memory of you in my heart. I am grateful that you enriched my life. I will never forget you. I hope you will continue to change peoples lives and perceptions. I know you have the potential to become the president of our beautiful country.

In my heart you are my grandson and will always be.

I love you so much!

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I am a sixty plenty wife, mother, sister, grandmother and friend. I started blogging as a coping mechanism during my beautiful daughter's final journey. Vic was desperately ill for 10 years after a botched back operation. Vic's Journey ended on 18 January 2013 at 10:35. She was the most courageous person in the world and has inspired thousands of people all over the world. Vic's two boys are monuments of her existence. She was an amazing mother, daughter, sister and friend. I will miss you today, tomorrow and forever my Angle Child.

12 thoughts on “Another goodbye, another heartbreak…”

  1. That is hard, Tersia. I’d have a meltdown too. What a precious little darling, may you all be happy….may you all be free from suffering, may you all come home to your completeness…
    I know I’ve written this blessing before, but it seemed right today…


  2. How hard for your all, but the gift of your family’s love will never be lost for Izak. You have all given him the most wonderful start in life, but I am so sad for you all. My sister fostered an abandoned baby boy in SA and was later able to adopt him. They subsequently moved the UK. He has spent a few years back in SA but is now at university in the UK. I am proud to be his aunty. Hugs to all of you.


  3. My heart and thoughts are with you, as always. What a beautiful little boy! I am glad he’s getting the chance at a permanent home, but all the while sad that you and your family have to say goodbye. Sending hugs and love.


  4. Truly, truly abandoned at 1 day old at a taxi stand? I just couldn’t get past that. I kept reading, but that’s all I could think of. My God…

    Bless him.


  5. Bitter Sweet for sure….
    But these are memories you will cherish for all of time..



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