I was reading a comment from Lucinda @ http://sophieandemile.wordpress.com/ Elliot – “Still cheering you on, Tersia, though I often don’t know what to say; others must know much better. In that photo, Vic, though desperately ill at the time, still looks lovely. She will always be lovely and young in your memory, though you would have loved to see her turn grey in late middle age. You are right to hold on to the ashes if it feels right to have them as part of the house.” when I started giggling.
I realised, that Vic is sitting in Heaven giggling because she fooled Father Time… Vic is 38 forever!
Thank you Lucinda!